Do You Make These 7 Body Language Mistakes When Traveling?

Body language is more important to travelers than many of us realize. The language your body is portraying to someone in another culture can mean the difference between them welcoming you with open arms and being extremely offended.

Also, locals’ body language, and what it means in their culture, can help you to understand when you are being accepted or being threatened.

Be sure to research the body language culture of countries before you visit them, but here are some of the most common body language mistakes you might not know you’re making:

1) Hand Signals

Be absolutely sure that you understand the different meanings of hand signals before you use them in a foreign country.

What can mean “okay” in one country—like the thumb and forefinger touching each other in a circle with the other three fingers up in the air—can mean a total insult in another.

An inverted “peace” sign means “go to hell” in the UK which is obviously a very different meaning.

A five fingered palm will also not receive a warm reception in Greece. You have been warned!

Though this signal means “okay” in the US, it is considered a rude gesture in other countries, and may get you into trouble. Photo by quinet.

2) Head Nods

A typical Westerner will nod his or her head up and down in agreement. So it can be confusing if you are in Bulgaria and a person nods his or her head up and down when the person doesn’t agree.

That’s because the up-and-down nod indicates “no” in their culture. The typical indication of “no” in the United States—moving the head from side to side—can mean “yes” in India.

When you are bartering in a market, it is particularly important to know what the seller is indicating by the head nod.

While in the West nodding up and down indicates agreement, in India, it means “no”. Photo by Barbara Millucci

3) Laughter

It’s generally assumed that to laugh means you are happy or pleased with something or someone. Not so fast though.

For example, if it is high-pitched, the laughter indicates nervousness in Japan. For the Japanese, just the act of smiling can mean a person is confused or angry.

Russians consider smiling at strangers in public as suspicious behavior, and random laughter may make them even more nervous.

According to world-renowned magician Leodini, Taiwanese rarely utter a sound during his magic shows, and his jokes are met with silence. But after the show, audience members will approach him and share their enjoyment.

Laughter usually means people are happy, but in some countries, it is meant to cover embarrassment. Photo by Peter Swain.

4) Eye Contact

While most Westerners consider eye contact to be a good introduction, the same is not true for many other countries. For Australian Aboriginals, it is a sign of respect to drop your gaze when talking to someone of high stature.

In many Middle Eastern countries, it is not acceptable to maintain eye contact between a man and a woman. Yet, sometimes men will try and make eye contact with Western women and will consider her reciprocating as a sign that she is interested. So ladies, beware.

In Latin American countries, extended eye contact often means a challenge of authority, so it is best to keep eye gazing to a minimum.

Flashing your eyebrow in Japan carries sexual connotations, or it might be thought of as downright rude.

Direct eye contact can be seen as disrespectful in many cultures, though eyes are considered the “window to the soul” in others. Photo by F.C.Photography.

5) Feet

Though we don’t tend to think much about what our feet are doing in the United States or Europe, those walking blocks can mean a whole lot more in other cultures.

In some Arab and Asian countries, showing the soles of the feet is considered rude and insulting. Also, don’t point your feet at anyone because that is considered similarly rude. Essentially, the feet are thought of as dirty.

Even in Europe, it’s generally not accepted to put your feet up on a table or desk, while this is much more acceptable in the United States.

Feet are considered dirty in certain countries, so it is considered rude to point them in someone else’s direction. Photo by Joshb.

6) Right Hand Vs Left Hand

In Europe or the United States, if you are right-handed, you write, eat and take care of most functions with your right hand. If you are left-handed, you naturally do the same with the left hand.

But in Arab countries, there are very specific connotations for the different hands. The left hand is generally considered unclean, as it is associated with taking care of bodily functions. They would never dare to eat with the left hand, even if this hand was favored for easier use.

Arabs would also not touch anything or anyone important with the left hand for the same reason, so it is best to stick with the right hand as much as possible when visiting these countries.

Sorry, lefties.

Which hand you use to eat and touch others has differing importance in different cultures. Photo by Luisfi.

7) Kissing

Kissing certainly means different things to different people, even within the same culture. But there are some cultures that naturally kiss more, particularly as a greeting sign, while others generally prohibit it in public.

For example, Latin Americans and Southern Europeans often kiss both cheeks when saying “hello” or “good-bye” to a friend. But do not try to pull the same method when you visit Asian countries, as this sign of affection is strictly prohibited.

When it comes to kissing, it’s best to let the person from the country you are visiting take the lead.

Kissing the cheek is norm in some cultures, while others never kiss in public. Be sure to know what is acceptable in the country you are visiting. Photo by caseywest.

Which body language faux pas have you made? Did any ever land you in trouble? Let me know in the comments below.

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Main photo: Body language can help protect you or show you are in danger while traveling. Photo by malias.

19 thoughts on “Do You Make These 7 Body Language Mistakes When Traveling?”

  1. Excellent article! I’ve been around a bit, and although I know it is important to be aware of the body language and hand signals you mention and be respectful of the local culture , I’ve found that locals who have any kind of experience with foreigners will understand and forgive you when you mess up.

    Of course, if you’re in the darkest jungles or farthest corners of the globe, you’d better watch out.

  2. Yes, in many Asian countries the traditional sign for ‘Come here’ – hand extended, palm upwards and curling the fingers towards you above the hand – is the way that only an animal would be summoned and you will, at best make people laugh in embarrassment, and at worst be deeply offended. To signal somebody to you, it is best to extend your hand palm downwards and curl the fingers towards you from underneath the hand. I learnt this very quickly as a teacher in Japan and Vietnam!

  3. Actually, the reverse peace sign (V sign) means “f-you” in the UK and has nothing to do with Greece, where an open palm to the direction of someone’s face means “go to hell”.

  4. I’m Spanish and I host foreign guests at home, mostly from English Speaking countries. At first I always kissed to say hello to them, then I realized that it was weird for them. Now I let them take the lead, sometimes they give the hand, both hand and kiss and sometimes is funny to just kiss and then explain that that’s normal in Spain. However, between guys it’s very extrange that they kiss.

  5. All the stuff mentioned about Arabs also applies to Indians. Ironically, the the head nodding mentioned in this article is completely wrong. Nodding up down is agreement in India as well. Moving your head sideways is also a No. There is another sideways motion altogether which is a signal of respectful agreement, usually used when agreeing with elders.

  6. I live in Athens, Greece for 35 years, and I always use to make the peace sign, by opening the index and the middle finger, to express peace. I didn’t know the other Greeks thought I’m sending them to hell!!! Even more odd is that they keep on smiling, friendly, back at me. Greeks mast be very tolerant after all, and I thought we have temper. Thanks for that Christine, you really opened my eyes!

  7. Great article… I’ve experienced some of these first-hand in Asia. It’s difficult to not make hand gestures sometimes and nodding you head in agreement is almost impossible not to do.

  8. In the US, it is considered acceptable to make eye contact with strangers on the street and smile. In France, that is considered rude. Also, if you stop to say hello to or compliment a dog on a leash, the owner will think you’re crazy.

  9. I have found myself (!) in the midst several cultures over the course of my travels.

    This is a very helpful introduction to the main differences in gestures and body communication.

    I have made errors in this area but it is more usual that these have been overlooked, as a politeness, laughed at or quietly ignored. As time in a given country has passed I have learned by observing others and corrected most offensive behaviour. One does need to observe the right “others” though!

    Hardest I think are limits to looking at people’s eyes, without that a glimpse does not often tell one what/how/why of the communication.

  10. The Indian head wobble from side to side can mean “yes”, “ok”, “I understand”, “thank you”, “I see…”… quite a few things. Also, I lived in India for more than three years and I’ve never been in a situation where nodding the head would have meant ” no”.

  11. I’m slightly aware with the upper body gestures but not the feet! I never realized that pointing your feet at someone can be considered as rude. Thanks for letting me know!

  12. I’m very bad about the feet one – I’m rarely thinking about which direction my feet happen to be pointing.

    In China it’s typical to beckon people and taxis with the hand palm down and the fingers waggling gently.

  13. When I was in Kathmandu, I noticed there were no public displays of affection (except for a few unaware tourists). Yet I saw a couple of men casually chatting while holding both of each other’s hands. It took me a moment to realize that this gesture was not so different than the way guys might put their arms on another man’s shoulders at a sporting event.

  14. An interesting and refreshing article. Asians are more conservative, no wonder they are less affectionate as compared to those in the western hemisphere. They are courteous especially toward older people because age is one of the primary considerations for the authority hierarchy.

    I just wonder what three-sign pictured above exactly means and in which country it is deemed rude. I think in Asia that symbolizes money–correct?

  15. When abroad I just do pretty much what I want. If anyone has an issue with me I generally put their lights out. Works like a charm. lol

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